How to Live a Life You Love

How to Live a Life You Love

Dreams Fulfillment Success

… What I’m talking about isn’t just some feel-good mumbo jumbo

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. —Eleanor Roosevelt

The next topic in my Empowered Dating monthly teleseminar series will focus on Living a Life You Love, during which we’ll use one of my favorite coaching exercises, envisioning the future, to help you get clarity on your ideal life.

Create the highest life visionYou’ll find this topic to be deeply meaningful to you because you’ll learn why being clear about your life vision is really the key to your future happiness, why most people haven’t explored their life vision and the unfortunate consequences of that, how to identify the limiting beliefs that hold you back from uncovering your life vision, and why self-prioritization is your compass to leading a fulfilled life.

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Empowered Dating for Introverts

Empowered Dating for Introverts

Courage Dating Dating Skills Fulfillment Relationships Self Discovery

Do you feel awkward, even apprehensive, when approaching or being approached by other people? Do you desperately want to connect with others, but don’t know how or can’t tolerate the anxiety that comes with interaction? Dating can seem extraordinarily hard for those who are either shy or introverted – taking risks to put oneself out there can seem like a daunting task. Plus our society tends to disfavor either trait; often we express this bias by encouraging shy and/or introverted people to see themselves as ill.

The truth is, more people than not are both. In fact, shyness and introversion – or more accurately, the careful, sensitive temperament from which both often spring – are not just normal, they are valuable. The challenge is when we long to make a connection and are Continue reading

Let’s Bust the Valentine’s Day Blues

Attitudes Courage Dating Dreams Fulfillment Planning Self Discovery Self Esteem Solutions

Back in the day when I was a relationship train-wreck, before I started to get my sh*t together about my self-esteem and intimacy issues, I used to despise Valentine’s Day, and all its reminders about romance and being in love and all those ads where pretty gals were surprised and delighted to be presented beautiful diamond engagement rings by handsome dudes. I used to hang black crepe paper ribbons in my work cubicle, wear all black, and regard the day as a day of mourning. I used to range emotionally from seething to despair around this time of year. I know I am (was) not alone – I talk to many singles now who regard Valentine’s Day as an unwelcome reminder of their “alone-ness” and longing for a loving connection. Continue reading

It’s time to attract the extraordinary!

Dating Skills Dreams Fulfillment Goals Planning Relationships Resolutions Special Events Success

Let’s Make 2014 the Year that You Attract the Extraordinary! Do you want to see all of your New Year’s resolutions come true? Do you want to attract an extraordinary relationship, or make current relationship gleam? Now’s the time get this party started! Let’s shut the door on 2013 and open a new one, to a life that sparkles with good friends, healthy finances and a thriving career – and most of all, let this be the year that you find Continue reading

Does the Thought of Speed Dating Fill You with Anxiety, Panic, Confusion?

Courage Dating Skills Dreams Fulfillment Planning Relationships Requirements Solutions Success

New Tips to Prepare You for Fun and Enjoyment Instead

speed dating coupleI’m creating a Speed Dating event (not your run of the mill Speed Dating event, mind you), with my friend, Cassie, of Cassie’s Calendar and the key organizer of the Single and Looking in NJ meet up group and I have been thinking about the feedback I’ve been getting from friends and clients about the viability of such events.

In my heart of hearts, I believe in the power of speed dating events. We are all active professionals, busy with our kick-a$$ careers and our families, sometimes with Continue reading

Kick Your Life into High Gear

Dating Dreams Fulfillment Goals Relationships Solutions Spiritual Laws Success

Four transformative “things to do” so you can have better relationships, more money, a successful career.

As a culture, we’re hooked into the fallacy of getting instant results. This applies to every aspect of our lives – from our careers, to our health, to dating and relationships. We’re always looking for the formula to success: put the quarter into the slot, and Continue reading

Your Blueprint for Dating Success: Date Smarter, Not Harder

Dating Relationships Solutions Special Events Success
  • Are you a relationship-minded single looking for your life partner but have no idea where to start?
  • Do you want to find your life partner but are tired of winding up with the same results, dating the same type of person, over and over again?
  • Are you overwhelmed at the mere prospect of going out on a date?
  • Does the thought of being single fill you with despair or anxiety?
Fired up and ready to go!

Fired up and ready to go!

You are not alone! We all Continue reading

5 Essential Principles For a Blissfully Successful Dating Life

Dating Fulfillment Relationships Success

Dating has to be the most misunderstood process in the human experience.

Are you nurturing that vision of a great relationship but often wind up frustrated, confused and resentful after a few forays into the dating scene? You are not alone.

As a life coach, I see many people, on their dating journeys, traveling to this vague, unclear destination called “A RELATIONSHIP”, unsure of where they are going and feeling Continue reading

Want to Succeed in Your Romantic Life? Master the PPPPPP* Principle

Dating Fulfillment Planning Relationships Success

* Proper Preparation Prevents Piss Poor Performance

As I prepare a series of workshops for people who are single and looking, and talk to many people about their dating lives, I realized that one thing forms the foundation of any successful endeavor — and really applies in the realm of love: an intentional approach yields intentional results while a haphazard approach yields haphazard results.

Get ready for it!

Get ready for it!

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