Life doesn’t happen by osmosis

Dreams Goals Planning Success

… Don’t let your regrets outnumber your dreams

I had the pleasure of attending a “women in business” networking event yesterday (on a Saturday – at 8:30 in the morning – in the middle of winter – with an hour drive to the venue – I might add just so you can gauge the level of my commitment to this group) during which one of the panelists stated: “Life doesn’t happen by osmosis”. A little while later, another panelist said: “You don’t age until your regrets outnumber your dreams”. These quotes struck a chord with me and got me to thinking about the change process, since at the core, my role as a coach is to be a change agent, a role filled with paradoxes and irony. Ironic because most people want to improve their lives in some way (make more money, get a better job, lose weight, find and keep true love) – yet at the very same time, most are deathly afraid of making the needed changes to achieve what Continue reading

Become an Enlightened “All Star”

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A New Program for those of you living in New Jersey

I’m excited to announce that I have teamed up with Cassie’s Calendar and the “Single & Looking in NJ” meet up group (here) to create an exclusive league of “Enlightened Daters”. Every member who attends my programs, workshops and webinars* will earn a place in a special section of the meet up group with notes about what workshops and events they participated in. I love this! Continue reading

Want to Succeed in Your Romantic Life? Master the PPPPPP* Principle

Dating Fulfillment Planning Relationships Success

* Proper Preparation Prevents Piss Poor Performance

As I prepare a series of workshops for people who are single and looking, and talk to many people about their dating lives, I realized that one thing forms the foundation of any successful endeavor — and really applies in the realm of love: an intentional approach yields intentional results while a haphazard approach yields haphazard results.

Get ready for it!

Get ready for it!

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A Paint-by-Numbers Life?

Career Goals Prosperity Relationships Success

Living a prosperous life requires that you realize your life is unique and that you become responsible for your own singular journey.

Hiring a coach (meaning, me!) is probably one of the smartest things you can do if there’s something you want to achieve but are confused or befuddled or downright stuck in the mud. Through the coaching process, together we can unlock doors of resistance, open Continue reading

Magic Bullet Thinking

Courage Goals Prosperity Success

 – the Easiest Way to Shoot Yourself in the Foot

I recently had a conversation with a friend who is a writer (one of many friends who are) and we were talking about seclusion and how necessary it was for him and his writing process. I’ve written about my “isolation” wrestling matches before. What struck me was how disciplined he is about his self-imposed exile, Continue reading