10 Commandments of Attracting Extraordinary Relationships

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Just say no to "meh"

Just say no to “meh”

Interested in attracting the extraordinary? Not satisfied with “meh” (or worse, destructive) relationships? Congratulations – and welcome to Empowered Dating & Relationships, a new paradigm. I do not believe – not for one second – that we need to settle for anything less than the very best in our lives. I think that men and women alike can come together from this space of empowerment and vitality and learn to co-create relationships that are uplifting, exciting and Continue reading

Got self-esteem?

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Or, to paraphrase Sally Field: “I like me! Right now, I like me!”

Anyone who reads my blog posts, or sits in on my webinars, consistently hears me say: Know Thyself … and … Be Your True Self (<– 5 Essential Principles for Dating Bliss). The underlying thread here is that knowing yourself leads to self-acceptance, and when you accept yourself, you can be true to yourself, and not sacrifice yourself on the altar of desperation and self-loathing. (How’s that for drama?) You’ll make much better choices if you have healthy self-regard. This seems to be a “DUH!” statement but boy oh boy, our world is chock full of people who berate themselves, who are unaware of their sabotaging beliefs, and thus deny themselves their full potential. In other words, This Is A Biggie. There is no true success Continue reading

Kick Your Life into High Gear

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Four transformative “things to do” so you can have better relationships, more money, a successful career.

As a culture, we’re hooked into the fallacy of getting instant results. This applies to every aspect of our lives – from our careers, to our health, to dating and relationships. We’re always looking for the formula to success: put the quarter into the slot, and Continue reading

Dating and Relationships Are Not Four-Letter Words

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The alchemy and spirituality of love and relationships as part of the Hero’s Journey

My closest friends laughed with incredulity and disbelief when I first told them I was approached by a woman I know, who runs a number of social communities, to help her single and looking tribe learn how to date smarter and become more satisfied with Continue reading

Dating Gold Digging Women? What it says about your values (part 2)

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In my last post, I started to address a rich question (in truth: a complaint) that I received via my “Ask the Coach” program. This particular entry was so rich that I wanted to break it down – my first response addressed the issue of honoring our time, since spending 7 months with someone who doesn’t reflect one of our core values is … well … kind of a waste of time.  Here’s the question/complaint again, to refresh our memories: Continue reading

Dating Gold Diggers: the hidden cost

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…or, Regrets: The heavy cost of the time we waste

I opened my doors up to an Ask the Coach program, and have had a few questions float into my Inbox, 99% of which focus on ‘why can’t the members of the opposite sex do XYZ’. I will go through each one and address what really pops out at me, but I thought I would start with this non-question question that actually is a complaint (which came to me anonymously and has been slightly edited for grammar and brevity).

I've been a miner for a heart of gold.

I’ve been a miner for a heart of gold.

I love complaints – they have hidden treasures and gifts, like a buried pirate chest filled with gold coins (which can only be seen if you aren’t a Dating Zombie). Continue reading

Your Blueprint for Dating Success: Date Smarter, Not Harder

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  • Are you a relationship-minded single looking for your life partner but have no idea where to start?
  • Do you want to find your life partner but are tired of winding up with the same results, dating the same type of person, over and over again?
  • Are you overwhelmed at the mere prospect of going out on a date?
  • Does the thought of being single fill you with despair or anxiety?
Fired up and ready to go!

Fired up and ready to go!

You are not alone! We all Continue reading

My Life Purpose and Dating

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How the exploration of my mission will help your relationship experiences

In my last post, I talked about our life purposes and how powerful we are when we are living in alignment with them. Here I thought I would talk about my own life purpose and how it directly influences my approach to creating programming that supports and improves your dating experiences (and soon, your financial serenity). Continue reading

Standing at The Crossroads of BEING and DOING

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Complete with a little dating advice, too.

Lately I’ve been in this tug of war between BEING and DOING … mainly because I focus a lot on the Law of Correspondence which states that our outer world is nothing more than a reflection of our inner world; as within, so without. So I work on my inner game, using all of the tools in my cache to access my intuition and cultivate my awareness, noticing how my thoughts and beliefs affect my “being”. Am I BEING insightful Continue reading