How to Live a Life You Love

How to Live a Life You Love

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… What I’m talking about isn’t just some feel-good mumbo jumbo

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. —Eleanor Roosevelt

The next topic in my Empowered Dating monthly teleseminar series will focus on Living a Life You Love, during which we’ll use one of my favorite coaching exercises, envisioning the future, to help you get clarity on your ideal life.

Create the highest life visionYou’ll find this topic to be deeply meaningful to you because you’ll learn why being clear about your life vision is really the key to your future happiness, why most people haven’t explored their life vision and the unfortunate consequences of that, how to identify the limiting beliefs that hold you back from uncovering your life vision, and why self-prioritization is your compass to leading a fulfilled life.

Most people who are single and Continue reading

Let’s Bust the Valentine’s Day Blues

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Back in the day when I was a relationship train-wreck, before I started to get my sh*t together about my self-esteem and intimacy issues, I used to despise Valentine’s Day, and all its reminders about romance and being in love and all those ads where pretty gals were surprised and delighted to be presented beautiful diamond engagement rings by handsome dudes. I used to hang black crepe paper ribbons in my work cubicle, wear all black, and regard the day as a day of mourning. I used to range emotionally from seething to despair around this time of year. I know I am (was) not alone – I talk to many singles now who regard Valentine’s Day as an unwelcome reminder of their “alone-ness” and longing for a loving connection. Continue reading

New Year’s Resolutions: Stretching for the stars

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True confidence can only be found if we put our creative vision for our life to the test, and stretch our selves to the utmost.  – 3 of Wands

What you are is what you have been, what you will be is what you do now. – Buddha

If you’re like me, the New Year always brings with it an element of nostalgia – or better yet, regret – because I realize that I didn’t quite accomplish what I said I was going to do. When you look back at 2013, what are the things that you most regret NOT doing? In the early months of 2014, are you on track to NOT DOING them again? Rather than beat myself up, however, I look at January as an ideal opportunity to transform regrets into opportunities, or goals, for this coming year. And then, because I like to focus on the extraordinary, think about how these goals can S*T*R*E*T*C*H. I love stretch goals because they challenge us to break out of the routine. Are you ready to stretch your goals and give yourself a good mental/emotional workout? Continue reading

Your Blueprint for Dating Success: Date Smarter, Not Harder

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  • Are you a relationship-minded single looking for your life partner but have no idea where to start?
  • Do you want to find your life partner but are tired of winding up with the same results, dating the same type of person, over and over again?
  • Are you overwhelmed at the mere prospect of going out on a date?
  • Does the thought of being single fill you with despair or anxiety?
Fired up and ready to go!

Fired up and ready to go!

You are not alone! We all Continue reading

The Importance of Visioning the Future

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And two exercises to help you

I’ve written about this before – how Envisioning the Future is vital to goal achievement since the first step of any process or journey is to figure out where you want to go. When we allow ourselves to leap into the future and picture our ideal world, we help formulate goals and strategies to help us get where we want to go. Envisioning the future activates our innate, inner GPS system. Continue reading

Want a prosperous future? Envision it first.

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If you were to wave a magic wand . . .

If you were to wave a magic wand . . .

I had the honor of hosting a workshop the other day, centered around attracting loving relationships, in which I asked the participants to write a Disney movie based on their ideal life in 10 years. Judging from the group’s reaction, you would have thought I asked them to rewrite War and Peace. Continue reading